* refactor activations into basic PyTorch, jit scripted, and memory efficient custom auto
* implement hard-mish, better grad for hard-swish
* add initial VovNet V1/V2 impl, fix#151
* VovNet and DenseNet first models to use NormAct layers (support BatchNormAct2d, EvoNorm, InplaceIABN)
* Wrap IABN for any models that use it
* make more models torchscript compatible (DPN, PNasNet, Res2Net, SelecSLS) and add tests
* select_conv2d -> create_conv2d
* added create_attn to create attention module from string/bool/module
* factor padding helpers into own file, use in both conv2d_same and avg_pool2d_same
* add some more test eca resnet variants
* minor tweaks, naming, comments, consistency
Ross Wightman