* refactor 'same' convolution and add helper to use MixedConv2d when needed
* improve performance of 'same' padding for cases that can be handled statically
* add support for extra exp, pw, and dw kernel specs with grouping support to decoder/string defs for MixNet
* shuffle some args for a bit more consistency, a little less clutter overall in gen_efficientnet.py
* reorganize train args
* allow resolve_data_config to be used with dict args, not just arparse
* stop incrementing epoch before save, more consistent naming vs csv, etc
* update resume and start epoch handling to match above
* stop auto-incrementing epoch in scheduler